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There’s a leadership lesson in almost every coffee catch-up, business lunch, or candid conversation—and today’s reflection is no exception. Inspired by a recent conversation with one of my childhood friends, currently in Canada for business and family, I reflected on a classic organizational challenge: What happens when a colleague’s ambition to take charge outpaces their actual competence? What are the ripple effects for the leader, team, and colleague?

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This isn’t just a theoretical dilemma—it’s a real dynamic that plays out across industries and cultures. This article explores “the unqualified takeover” from multiple perspectives: the leader, the team, and the ambitious colleague. For each, we’ll define the “new role” required to turn this challenge into an opportunity for growth, using the N.E.U.R.A.L. Framework of Success™ as our compass.

Whether you’re leading, collaborating, or recognizing yourself in the overzealous colleague, consider this your invitation to reimagine your role for the greater good of your team and your development. As always, we’ll close with actionable insights and a call to intentional leadership—because every challenge is a chance to evolve.

The Neuroscience of Business Success: Ambition, Self-Awareness, and Team Dynamics

At the core of every high-performing team lies the delicate interplay between ambition and ability. Neuroscience teaches us that ambition is not just a personality trait—it’s a product of our brain’s reward circuitry. When we achieve, receive recognition, or anticipate success, our brains release dopamine, reinforcing the drive to seek new challenges and opportunities. This cycle can be a powerful engine for growth and innovation.

However, when ambition is not balanced by self-awareness and competence, it can trigger cognitive distortions, most notably the Dunning-Kruger effect, where individuals overestimate their abilities and underestimate the complexity of leadership. This isn’t just a theoretical concept; it’s a dynamic many of us have witnessed firsthand.

A Practical Example: Consider Alex, a talented but relatively new team member on a high-stakes project. Eager to prove himself, Alex volunteers for tasks outside his expertise and sometimes bypasses his direct manager to present ideas directly to senior executives. Initially, his energy is admired. But as mistakes accumulate and deadlines slip, frustration grows within the team. The project manager feels undermined, colleagues feel overlooked, and senior leaders start to question the team’s cohesion.

The Deeper Roots: Validation and Trauma

Neuroscience and trauma research reveal that overzealous ambition often traces back to a deeper need for validation. For some, this drive is rooted in formative experiences—perhaps a childhood where recognition was scarce, or environments where worth was tied to achievement.

The brain, shaped by these early patterns, learns to seek external affirmation as a means of self-worth. Over time, this can manifest as overcompensation: taking on too much, striving to be noticed, or bypassing boundaries to gain approval.

These patterns are rarely conscious. Individuals like Alex may not realize that their quest for validation is shaped by old neural pathways, reinforced over years of experience. Without intentional self-reflection and feedback, these habits persist, often to the detriment of both the individual and the team.

Neuroplasticity and the Power of Change:

The good news is that the brain is not static.

Through neuroplasticity, we have the capacity to rewire our thoughts, habits, and responses.

By embracing intentional practices—such as seeking feedback, reflecting on motivations, and building new habits—we can break old cycles and cultivate healthier, more effective patterns of ambition.

Why This Matters for Leaders and Teams:

Understanding these neural foundations is essential for everyone on the team. It empowers leaders to coach with empathy, equips colleagues to respond with compassion, and helps ambitious individuals channel their drive in ways that support both personal growth and collective success.

As we explore this week’s scenario, keep in mind that every team dynamic is shaped not just by skills and structures but also by the invisible wiring of the mind. The N.E.U.R.A.L. Framework of Success™ offers a practical path for navigating, elevating, and rewiring these patterns, turning even the most challenging dynamics into opportunities for transformation.

The Leader’s Perspective: Navigating Assertive but Underprepared Talent

The leader orchestrates diverse personalities, ambitions, and skill sets in every high-stakes project. When a team member’s drive outpaces their readiness, like Alex’s persistent volunteering and bypassing of protocols, the leader faces a critical challenge: how to encourage initiative without compromising team structure or psychological safety.

Unchecked, this dynamic can:

• Undermine the leader’s authority and credibility
• Blur lines of accountability and decision-making
• Disrupt trust and cohesion within the team

Applying the N.E.U.R.A.L. Framework™ as a Leader:

• Navigate: Address the behavior directly and privately. Initiate a candid conversation with Alex, clarifying team roles, boundaries, and the rationale behind established processes. This prevents ambiguity and reinforces the leader’s presence.
• Elevate: Acknowledge Alex’s ambition as a strength, but emphasize the importance of pairing drive with humility and continuous skill development. Publicly recognize constructive initiative, while privately guiding overreach into productive channels.
• Understand: Seek to uncover what’s fueling Alex’s behavior. Is it a genuine desire to contribute, or a more profound need for validation? Use empathetic listening to understand underlying motivations and create a space for honest dialogue.
• Rewire: Offer targeted coaching and development opportunities. Provide Alex with clear, achievable milestones and feedback loops that build competence and confidence over time.
• Adapt: Adjust team routines or workflows if necessary to channel ambition constructively. Consider rotational leadership roles or special projects that allow ambitious team members to stretch within safe boundaries.
• Lead: Model transparent, emotionally intelligent leadership. Balance ambition with respect for process and reward initiative and collaborative spirit. By leading with clarity and empathy, the leader sets the tone for a culture where healthy ambition thrives without destabilizing the team.

Practical Example: In our scenario, the project manager schedules a one-on-one with Alex, expressing appreciation for his enthusiasm but outlining why specific protocols exist. She invites Alex to co-lead a sub-project, pairing him with a mentor to accelerate his growth, while reinforcing the importance of trust and team alignment. This approach addresses the immediate issue and transforms it into an opportunity for development and unity.

The Colleagues’ Perspective: Navigating Team Dynamics Amid Overzealous Ambition

When a teammate’s ambition consistently exceeds their competence, like Alex’s drive to take on high-visibility tasks or bypass direct leadership, it’s not just the leader who feels the impact. Colleagues may experience a range of emotions: frustration, anxiety, or disengagement. The team’s psychological safety can be threatened, and the sense of collective responsibility may erode.

Unchecked, this dynamic can:

• Undermine trust and open communication
• Create bottlenecks or duplicated efforts
• Foster resentment, reduce morale, and lead to disengagement

Applying the N.E.U.R.A.L. Framework™ as a Colleague:

• Navigate: Proactively clarify roles and responsibilities within the team. When boundaries are blurred, document your contributions and engage in open conversations to realign expectations.
• Elevate: Offer constructive, respectful feedback to the overzealous colleague—ideally in a private, supportive manner. Focus on how certain behaviors affect the team’s workflow and outcomes, not on personal shortcomings.
• Understand: Practice empathy. Recognize that ambition often stems from a desire for validation or recognition, which may be rooted in past experiences or unresolved trauma. Approach your colleague with compassion, not judgment.
• Rewire: Foster a culture of peer coaching. Encourage your colleague to seek mentorship or additional training before taking on new responsibilities, and be willing to share your own experiences and lessons learned.
• Adapt: Please be flexible in your approach to collaboration, but maintain team norms and processes. If necessary, suggest adjustments to workflows that can help channel ambition more productively.
• Lead: Demonstrate unity, professionalism, and a commitment to the team’s shared goals. By modeling healthy communication and collaboration, you reinforce a culture where ambition is balanced by competence and mutual respect.

Practical Example: In our scenario, a colleague notices Alex repeatedly volunteering for tasks outside his skill set and approaching senior leaders directly. Instead of venting frustrations to others, this colleague invites Alex for a candid coffee chat. They shared how these actions impact the team’s workflow and suggested that Alex speak with the project manager about structured growth opportunities. This peer-to-peer dialogue diffuses tension and empowers Alex to seek development more constructively.

The N+2 Perspective: Strategic Oversight and Reinforcing Team Protocols

From the vantage point of the N+2 executive, team performance is about more than just results—it’s about cohesion, process, and the cultivation of future leaders. When an ambitious team member like Alex bypasses their direct manager to seek visibility or pitch ideas, it signals opportunity and risk. While initiative is valued, undermining established protocols can erode trust, disrupt workflow, and create confusion around decision rights.

Unchecked, this dynamic can:

• Challenge the authority of middle management
• Destabilize established processes and reporting lines
• Set a precedent that may encourage similar behavior from others

Applying the N.E.U.R.A.L. Framework™ as an N+2 Executive:

• Navigate: Take time to assess the situation holistically before responding. Gather context from the team leader and Alex to understand the motivations and circumstances behind the bypass.
• Elevate: Publicly acknowledge and encourage ambition, but use this as a teaching moment to reinforce the value of process, respect for hierarchy, and collective achievement. Recognize Alex’s drive while highlighting the importance of team alignment.
• Understand: Clarify expectations for communication and escalation. Explain how established channels support all team members' transparency, efficiency, and professional development.
• Rewire: Guide the leader and Alex on channeling the initiative within the right structures. Suggest regular forums or innovation sessions where ideas can be safely surfaced and discussed without bypassing direct leadership?
• Adapt: Be open to feedback about whether current processes might unintentionally stifle innovation. Where appropriate, adjust protocols to ensure they empower rather than restrict, but never at the expense of clarity or team trust.
• Lead: Model executive presence and emotional intelligence. Support the leader in addressing the situation, demonstrating that leadership is about empowering others, not just recognizing individual ambition.

Practical Example: In our scenario, the N+2 executive receives Alex’s direct email pitch. Rather than responding immediately, the executive consults the project manager to understand the context. In a team meeting, the N+2 praises initiative but reiterates the importance of established processes for team success. Privately, the executive encourages Alex to work closely with his manager and assures him that good ideas will always have a forum within the proper channels.

The Zealous Colleague’s Perspective: Channeling Ambition with Awareness

For ambitious team members—like Alex in our scenario—the drive to contribute and be seen can feel urgent and deeply personal. This urge is often rooted in a genuine desire to add value. Still, neuroscience and trauma research remind us that it may also stem from a more profound need for validation, shaped by past experiences or formative environments where recognition was scarce.

Unchecked, this ambition can:

• Lead to overstepping roles or bypassing established processes
• Erode trust among colleagues and with leadership
• Result in missed learning opportunities and, paradoxically, stalled growth

Applying the N.E.U.R.A.L. Framework™ as the Zealous Colleague:

• Navigate: Take an honest inventory of your motivations. Are you seeking recognition to fill an internal void, or are you genuinely ready for more responsibility? Reflect on feedback and recurring patterns in your behavior.
• Elevate: Reframe ambition as a strength to be harnessed, not a force to be unleashed indiscriminately. Seek growth opportunities that align with your current skill set, and celebrate incremental progress.
• Understand: Acknowledge how your actions may be perceived. Bypassing your manager or dominating tasks can signal a lack of trust or self-awareness. Ask for feedback and listen with humility.
• Rewire: Develop new habits for seeking validation. Instead of overreaching, focus on mastering your current responsibilities, building credibility, and requesting mentorship. Practice self-affirmation and recognize your achievements internally, not just through external validation.
• Adapt: Be patient with your growth. Leadership is a journey, not a sprint. Allow yourself to learn from setbacks and adapt your approach based on feedback and outcomes.
• Lead: Let your impact speak for itself. Authentic leadership is recognized by others, not self-proclaimed. Lift the team as you grow—when your ambition serves collective goals, it will be celebrated and rewarded.

Practical Example: In our scenario, Alex takes time to reflect on his motivations after a candid conversation with his manager and a supportive peer. He decides to channel his energy into mastering a critical project component, seeks guidance from a mentor, and gradually earns greater responsibility. Over time, Alex’s ambition becomes a source of strength for the team, not a source of tension.

Navigating the presence of an overzealous colleague is ultimately less about judgment and more about understanding.

Neuroscience reminds us that every behavior, even disruptive behavior, is rooted in a story—often one of unmet needs, past experiences, or a deep desire for validation. Instead of reacting with frustration or exclusion, leaders and teams are called to approach such dynamics with curiosity and compassion.

By seeking first to understand—before offering feedback or correction—we create the psychological safety needed for everyone to grow.

Through the N.E.U.R.A.L. Framework of Success™, you can transform these challenging moments into learning, trust-building, and authentic collaboration opportunities. The real win comes when ambition is harnessed for the collective good, and every team member is empowered to contribute from a place of strength and self-awareness.

If you’re ready to deepen your leadership practice and equip yourself with neuroscience-backed strategies for handling complex team dynamics, I invite you to join our Success Leadership Academy™ #SLA. Together, let’s build the skills and mindsets that turn challenges into breakthroughs—for yourself, your team, and your organization.

In today’s digital-first world, neuroadaptability and strategic leadership are essential for successful transformations. By applying the N.E.U.R.A.L. Framework of Success™, you can build the resilience and alignment needed to navigate complexity, foster innovation, and achieve sustainable growth.

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